African American Vignette #11

During the 2003 war on Iraq I went to an interfaith peace rally at the Federal Building in San Francisco.  After I joined a group of people singing peace songs, the leader of the group asked me to pass out some song sheets. We were singing in a busy area, and I didn't really know who was there to attend the rally so I just went along asking people if they wanted a song sheet.  I came to an older African American man wearing a fedora hat and a suit jacket who I thought looked out of place.  I asked him, with a slight edge in my voice, if he intended to stay for the rally since the song sheets were only for those staying.  He took a sheet saying he planned to stay.

I felt awkward about the interaction realizing that I had treated him differently from other people.  He was the only African-American in the crowd, and I assumed he didnít belong there.  Later I introduced myself to him and apologized for treating him rudely.  He smiled and told me he forgave me.

Commentary to African American Vignette #11


At times we may wonder why more people of color don’t attend certain events or join groups which are predominantly white. Progressive political groups often talk about the need to do outreach to communities of color. If a person of color anticipates the kind of awkward interaction, one indicating that he doesn’t really belong, portrayed in this vignette, it is little wonder s/he stays away.

In this case, the white woman did realize the assumption she was operating from and apologized.

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